If you're playing an objective mode and you get killed by a revenge spawn, you're not playing the objectives. I mean, really. It is that simple. I scored 9 caps in a match last night because I was the only one moving back and forth between A and B or A and C (when my teammates stupidly kept pushing for the third cap without having first gained a significant lead). The closest anyone got to me on either team was 5 caps. That was with twice as many kills as the best player on the opposing team (not that I was paying attention until the match was over) and a +4 to 1 kdr.
If anyone killed me as a result of a revenge spawn, I never noticed it. I simply got right back into the thick of the battle. I don't make excuses; I pay attention.
Oh, and I was running lone wolf.